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Parental
Insanity
Do Six Year Olds Need Padded Bras?
By Daniel Muniz
Children clothing manufacturers like Barbie, Bratz, and Saddle Club
as well as national chain department stores such as Target have now
begun to market lingerie sets of lacy bras and sexy panties to girls
as young as six years old. Perhaps the greatest outrage is the
shameless hawking of breast enhancing padded bras to girls who are
barely old enough to go to elementary school.
Does a little girl really need to be flaunting her fake cleavage in
elementary school? And are sexy panties supposed to give her
confidence and self-esteem?
But the first question to ask is what
are parents thinking of? Or are they even thinking at all?
And what are the manufacturers and the retailers thinking of? Are
they too obsessed with making money that they have forgotten the
need to responsible members of the community?
Below is the lame response from the Bratz distributor Funtastic:
"The
idea of the padding is for girls to be discreet as they develop.
It is more about hiding what you have got than showing it off.
It is certainly not there to make children look like they have
breasts."
Source: News.com
Such convoluted logic is almost laughable. It is like the
esoteric shops that sell crack pipes as a decoration instead of
marketing it as drug paraphernalia. Like, what else is someone going
to use a crack pipe for?
The same goes for these manufacturers. They know full well that
breast enhancements like padded bras or augmentation surgery is
intended for attracting attention which is why grown women buy them.
And after all, an adult woman is capable of making her own decisions
as well as with dealing with the attention the enhancements garner
but the same cannot be said of six year olds, especially when it
ends up attracting the wrong kind of attention.
To be fair, there are legitimate reasons for a young girl to use a
padded bra especially during an awkward time of their physical
development. Below is a comment from a parent about such a reason:
I totally "get" the logic. As the mother of
a "budding" 11 year old daughter, let me just say that breasts
develop rather awkwardly. They don’t just swell up evenly, round
and beautiful overnight. I can totally see covering them up,
although I'm not sure you need a lot of padding. There is a
line.
In such situations, it is perfectly understandable that there is
a genuine need for a padded bra for a “budding” young woman but that
is not the case for a six year old.
As for sexy underwear, below is a statement from Target about
selling lingerie to little girls:
It
provides fashionable items that give girls modesty and style as
they go through development changes.
Source: News.com
As for modesty, here is a keen observation I found about this
subject:
[GRAPHIC NOT SHOWN]
[but you get the picture]
Here are a couple of the bra/panty sets from Target. Most of
MY bras aren't even this sexy... and these are for a 6-year-old.
Hrmmm.
It is obvious that the manufacturers and retailers are not
interested in fashion and modesty regardless of how carefully they
craft their statements. They are in it for the fast buck and they
don’t care if they are setting the stage for creating a more
dangerous environment for little girls.
And the reason it is dangerous is because when parents start
dressing their young daughters like raunchy women, it will
immediately draw the attention of pedophiles. And worse, more people
will begin to view little girls as sex objects instead of as
innocent children. Every state in the union has databases filled
with sex offenders which ought to be reason enough to discourage
sexualizing very young girls. But overall, parents simply should not
be pandering to the desires of these perverts because we already
have a big problem with child molesters.
However, is such clothing becoming pervasive?
I remember one time I was going to cast a ballot at a voting station
located in an elementary school. I was surprised to see how many
little girls running around dressed like JonBenet Ramsey. I had
asked some elementary school teachers that I was acquainted with
about it and many of them indicated that it had not yet reached
critical mass but that a trend was definitely emerging in the kinds
of clothes that parents are now buying for their children.
In the media sensation of the death of JonBenet Ramsey, much of the
nation felt scandalized to see how affluent parents could dress up a
pretty little girl to look like a Vegas showgirl as well as dance
like one. People were uncomfortable at how this little kid could
frolic around in a sexually provocative manner. As a result, the
public did not sympathize with the Ramsey family in their tragedy.
Unfortunately, parents are now succumbing to marketing ploys and
buying sexy little panties and bras for their very young daughters.
And the truth of the matter is that these big corporations would not
be selling these kinds of products if there were not people willing
to buy them. After all, retailers want to make money and they won’t
hesitate for one moment to drop a product line if there is no profit
to make off of it.
Sadly, that is not the case because there is a growing demand for
sexy lingerie for little girls.
The only other alternative is that people need to raise this issue
with the media. A corporation doesn’t mind being irresponsible if
there is money to be made but they also don’t want to risk
tarnishing their image either.
For example, you don’t see Target selling crack pipes or bongs.
Although they can craft carefully worded statements about how
beautiful of an ornament a crack pipe would make or how eclectic
they are sitting on your fireplace mantle, they won’t sell them even
though they could make a fortune. The reason is because the public
outcry would trash the goodwill that that department chain has spent
years developing. As a result, it is not worth the negative
publicity to sell such products even for a handsome profit.
The same could be done with the lingerie sets for little girls.
Right now the clothing manufacturers and retailers are selling these
items because they can get away with it. If the press could raise
public awareness about the dangers of sexualizing little children
and how it can attract perverts, then it could influence these
companies to reconsider their product lines. Just like selling crack
pipes, many of these reputable corporations don’t want to be
included with the wrong crowd.
But most importantly, it is time for parents to let their children
be children instead of finding ways that they can be sensuously
alluring.
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COMMENTS FROM READERS
First of all, "parents," "Mothers" or "Fathers"
who would buy this "clothing" for their young daughters to wear,
ought to be ashamed of themselves.
Secondly, Target stores are mentioned as the retailer selling
this "merchandise." If Walmart were the retailer selling this
type of "clothing," the Walmart hating news media would be all
over this story like hyenas at the kill site. Katie Cupcake (Couric)
at CBS evening news would be frothing at the mouth. Moonbatty
Keith Olberman at the pathetic MSNBC, would be seething.
Target corporation, gets away with the exact same things that
sends the anti Walmart crowd into a frenzy, and gets away with
it, because of the liberal anti Walmart agenda of the major news
media. But Tar-zhay with its "trendy" image, and upbeat (I find
them annoying) television ads can do no wrong in the minds of
some misguided people. All the more reason, I call it "Teflon
Target", nothing sticks to it.
-Chris
I am a grandmother of 4 granddaughters (ages
ranging from 14 down to 4 years old) and I think it is
outrageous the way the clothing manufacturers have pushed these
styles and the parents who buy them should be ashamed of
themselves. What a tragedy, to throw away the innocence of
childhood. Every time I shop for my granddaughters I make it a
point to make a comment that the clothes look like they are for
midgets. At Christmas time I wanted to buy my oldest
granddaughter underpants at Aeropostale as I put them on the
counter if turned them over and noticed the writing on the back.
I told the salesgirls I changed my mind and I would not buy
these for my 14 year old granddaughter. Is there some
organization that is working to stop this insanity? If so I
would like to join. -Carol
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